10 Reasons to have kids: 1. A couple becomes a family. 2. There is no joy like the joy of welcoming a newborn to your life 3. Kids give you purpose and meaning in your life that nothing can ever match. 4. Kids teach us the joy of unconditional love and acceptance and will soften your hard edges and sharpen your compassion and empathy.
5. You will be more responsible because now that you are a parent, your kid(s) do look up to you 6. When your babies tells you "Daddy, Mommy, I love you" as they give you a big hug wrap their tiny arms around you....... you will experience nothing more real, warm, pure....... 7. Watching a child grow into a caring, sensitive soul is priceless 8. Watching a child grow, you feel that all your effort and hard work is all worth it at the end 9. You get to read all the favorite books of your childhood all over, and relive your childhood memory again... 10. Soon, when they are old enough, they can help you with your chores! 10 Reaons NOT to have kids: 
1. You cannot reverse the decision to have a child, and your responsibility may never end. 2. Children are financially destructive, You will end up spending everything you make just to pay for your family’s needs, living paycheck to paycheck. 3. You will be pressured to ignore your own needs in favor of catering to your child's wants. The demands of child rearing will prevent you from enjoying many of life’s pleasures. 4. Your sex life will be devastated by a combination of exhaustion and interruptions by children. 5. The pleasures of marriage, such as going out, taking walks, and sleeping in, are disrupted or destroyed for many years by children. 6. Having and raising children is physically and emoationally debilitating. 7. When you go out or go on vacation, you’ll spend all your time making sure your children are enjoying themselves, getting enough to eat and having a good time, and you’ll be left with the ghastly knowledge that everyone else is living while you’re missing out. 8. You will lose your friends because the constant attention and catering that must constantly be lavished on a child makes it impossible to spend any time with them doing anything other than entertaining your child. 9. You will suffer through many years of sleep deprivation, with serious effects on your happiness and health. 10. You will possible be out of shape, and no time to dieting and exercising, you are no longer attractive, after all, you are someone's mom or dad, how attractive do you want to be? | 
